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Stress on Your Relationship Can Come in Many Forms

stressMost relationships go through struggles. When two people get married and move in together, even if they have lived together before getting married, there are new struggles that they could face. While they can get through these together, the struggles can put a strain on the relationship.

Money is one of the biggest problems that married couples face. There might not be as much money to do the fun things that were done while you were dating. There are now bills to pay like rent or a house payment, a possible car payment and groceries to buy. Each person might think that the money made belongs to each person instead of combining the household income as one. It’s important to set a budget for the finances after getting married so that you know what needs to be paid each month and what money you will have left over to save or to spend on entertainment.

Another common stress factor is children. Some couples get married and already have children from a previous marriage. This can be stressful because you are introducing new rules and new people into the home. If you find that you are having trouble getting pregnant, this can cause a strain on the marriage because each person feels at fault. Talk about your feelings, and if you already have children, then make sure they know of the rules of the new house. Make sure the children know that they are loved, but that you need to spend time together as a married couple now with time set aside for family activities as well.

If both people work, then you might not be able to spend a lot of time together. This can add to the stress that you already feel from work or school. When something is bothering you, talk to your spouse. That’s what the relationship is for. You are there to support each other through good times and bad times. Plan to spend some time together during the week so that you can reconnect with each other and keep the romance alive. This review offers advice on how to work through stress in your relationship without arguing.


About Dangerous Lee

Writer of essays, short stories and Ask A Black Girl. Author of Keep Your Panties Up and Your Skirt Down & The Half Series - When Black People Look White. Webmaster of DangerousLee.biz.


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